How do I get the respect I deserve from family/friends who do not take me seriously?

People are always gonna either abuse, or not take you seriously If you let them... If they ask you for money say you don't have enough do to them what they do to you.. If they are surprised that you bought your own home let them you know you worked hard to get it and I'm sure you don't brag about it so it's not like your doing all this for them.. But it would be nice for if you got your money back... Sorry if I didn't help